Therapy for Asian Americans

“Compulsory wellness tells us that we have to pretend to be well all the time. That being well somehow makes us good. And when we conflate wellness with goodness, it becomes prescriptive. And so, we don’t admit that we are unwell, because being unwell signifies a failure somehow.” - Mimi Khúc

What does it mean to be whole as an ‘Asian’ and ‘American’? 

My work with Asian-Americans begins with a curiosity about how we experience the liminal predicament: that space between “Asian” and “American” and maneuvering along the contracting/expanding edges of the American periphery. Often times, unpacking mental health at the intersection of race and gender calls for a different language to understand suffering: generational burdens, historical and cultural contexts, systems of power, and racism.

In therapy, we may explore the meaning of belonging and identity, guilt/shame, attachment wounds, perfectionism, war and colonialism, survival/scarcity, utilizing somatic parts work through Internal Family Systems, mindfulness-based stress reduction, and Acceptance and Commitment frameworks.

There’s power in allowing ourselves to be whole in this reality and co-creating our wellness that considers our full humanity.